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My heart will always belong to her.
48 years old 
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Rugged is The Dominant Gentleman.
Last Profile Login: 5/17/2024
Last World Login: 4/15/2024
Member Since: 8/12/2008
General Info
I Am Here For: My Wife
Marital Status: Happily Married
Children: I don't want children
Education: Post Grad
Religion: Spiritual, but not Religious
Smoke: No
Drink: No
Occupation: Fulltime Taxpayer
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 6' 3"
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
Languages: English
Sexy Stuff
I Am Looking For: ... you'd know if this is you.
Sexual Fantasies: Domination, Sadism & Masochism, wouldn't you want to know the rest...
Sex is Best: Painfully slow.
Cybersex: No
I Want You To: listen
Cybersex Personality: Dominating, Aggressive
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Before anything else, I'm setting the record straight... I will only dance with one person here. That would be - Her. Before anyone else wastes their time on Me, know that there is only One I am interested in.

Now that's done, please allow me to be a bit more conceited and fill out this About Me section.
Really, if you don't care for it, feel free to close out my page. I promise, I won't take offense. Thank you.


Yep. I've lived this lifestyle in RL since I became an adult... That's back in the 1900s for you. So, no. I don't carry a title. I don't need one to define Me. That's that.

I come here, every so often, not all the time. Mainly for her.

Most times, I'm just watching. Or talk. or both. Perhaps, one more than the other. On full moons, I might actually socialize.

People will get to know who I am as a person, not any persona they think I should be. They will like me for all of my flaws, and they will hate me for every single time I don't live up to everyone's expectations.

My friendship is one to earn. Friendship takes time to build. People will come to realize that what I have to offer is a genuine friendship, nothing staged, not for show. Whatever this profile has triggered, curiosity or assumption, keep in mind that this is nothing more than a preview of what you get from me. I will be the first to admit that most times, I can be impossible to handle. I am not someone you can consider "too good to be true," but I will always be the first to admit my faults. I own up to my mistakes, and I make it a point to learn from my errors.

These are the flashes of my time in RLC. I've seen the best and worst amongst people in here, highs and lows. I keep myself busy on here, and I may not always respond at a moment's notice. But I will eventually get back to people's messages.

Let go of the delusion that I will always agree with you. I play the devil's advocate. My respect is earned when people rise to the occasion, when they stand up for what they believe in, even if we have different perspectives.

And at the end of this introduction, no one will care what I have written. People will still have their own impression of me. They will believe what they want to believe. And really, that is none of my concern as long as you don't disrespect me.


First word I can think of... Chivalrous. I'm very old fashioned. I still believe in respecting women, holding the door open for them, staying closer to the edge of the sidewalk, holding umbrella, chair and letting them take their seats first, offering my jacket when she's cold kinda guy... But I wouldn't misunderstand that if I were you. I also know how to play with women behind closed doors. One of the people you'll come across who knows what needs to stay behind closed doors and the one that can be displayed.

If you're the kind of person who believes that women can handle themselves and don't need this kind of treatment, that's perfectly okay. Just don't get on My case for behaving the way I do.
Just a bit of a reference... Enjoy.-


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I don't need anyone's approval to act the way I do, and I certainly don't need to explain Myself to others. I can only be held responsible for my own actions, choices and decisions I make. How my actions affect others is on them. I take ownership of my errors, and I learn from them. I'd rather give my most sincere apology than live with the "what if" thoughts.

If it means I ever hurt someone by telling the truth, that's how it goes. I won't ever lie to make someone feel better about themselves.
Bottomline, I'm no good at sugar-coating things.
I will listen to what people tell me, but I don't always trust everyone... Call it an issue. But rest assured, I finish everything I start. I am not here to steal... or take away another man's lady. I can find my own. So if that's an issue for you, I'd say "move along"... please take your insecurities with you.

I'm not one to broadcast all my thoughts and feelings on a random stranger. Just because I don't share my emotions out in the open doesn't mean I don't have them. Before you jump into conclusions about me, make sure you get to know where I've been, what I've gone through, and how I am as a person.

The moment you can live through a day in my shoes, then I’ll listen to you complain about Me.


That's about right... I've been here for a while. We all have the control of how much of ourselves... emotionally, physically, mentally... we're willing to invest on here. It's what you make out of your experience that matters the most. Some days are better than others - that's always given, but all in all, I can honestly say that there's never been a dull day.

As for me, a lot of things can occupy my time here in RLC. Most times, you'll find me at the Welcome Center. Other times, you'll see me performing a wedding. There will be days when you see me just loafin' out and about in trans, street, and yes, every once in a while, at clubs. But - if you ever find yourself looking for information about weddings, whether it's for you or for someone else, feel free to send me a message. If I can't give you a definite answer, I'll make sure I'll find someone who can.

Who I'd like to meet:
Oh, just a note to remember...
"Just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm in the market."

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